Following on from Ian Dyer’s article “Can you Improve your Reading or Spelling?”, which I posted on 21st August, this is a second article from my Mentor and Coach Tina Taylor, from her blog at Tina Taylor Training BlogSpot.
This article was first published on 31st August, 2010 and Tina, is the “Tina” that Ian refers to in his article.
I posted Tina’s article about PNI – Psychoneuroimmunology on 24th June 2010
Overcoming Barriers to Learning
In this day and age there are opportunities for learning all around us; many people say they want a career change and some of these need to learn new skills possibly go back to college or university. Some of these are lucky enough to have companies who will assist them in their quest; the workplace can provide excellent opportunities for learning and continuous personal development.
Many review opportunities and never get started; whilst others start, they begin full of enthusiasm, excited at the prospect of creating a new future then something happens that stops them.
Firstly, let’s examine, what is learning? It is a physical process, some may argue that it is a mental process and this is the traditional way of defining learning. Yet when thoughts occur, something physical happens to us. When external events take place, physical processes take place in our bodies in reaction to them; these processes establish memories, reinforce or create behaviours and beliefs and change our physiology.
Our learning begins before birth, taking place in our development and continues throughout our lives. In the beginning we learn how to control movement, to feed and communicate with others; learning who we are and about the world around us. And it is here that we may learn other things, beliefs about ourselves, things that we inadvertently pick up from those around us.
For example: “I can’t dance”
“I’m not musical/artistic”
“I can’t spell”
“I can’t change”
“I always fail”
These are just a few statements that people may learn about themselves, beliefs that hold them back limiting their self development. Beliefs that were learnt physically then metaphorically into their bodies through individual experience.
Can these beliefs be un-learned? Certainly and generally very quickly using various NLP techniques.
What we believe about ourselves can easily influence our ability to think and learn; this can also be influenced by the mood that we are in, our state. Our states serve as a filter for the information that we receive; when learning our physical and mental state is just as important as the level of training and information delivered. Discovering your learning state and how to access it will enable you to get yourself into the appropriate state as and when required.
As well as having a state that best suits the learning process people have individual learning styles that they have developed. For example some people prefer to be shown how to do something, learning by watching or reading; whereas others prefer to be told how to do something, learning by listening and discussion; and then there are those who learn best by doing, they like to try things out.
From the NLP perspective learning styles can be either paced or lead, as a tutor/trainer the information can be presented in a way that matches the person’s preferred way of learning; as well as helping the person to enrich their learning style by helping them strengthen their other senses. Recognizing peoples natural learning styles is an important skill for all communicators, and can enhance the effectiveness and ease with which they can influence their listeners.
Many people today are discovering that NLP is a powerful tool that can be used for personal development as well as in the business arena. Teaching techniques that enable us to get the best out of others as well as ourselves providing strategies for coping with and managing those difficult moments in life.
Much can be learned from books but NLP is experiential and learning from a skilled trainer is invaluable.
Come along to our practice group www.nlpmasterclass.co.uk to experience NLP for yourself.
Posted by Tina Taylor on 31st August. 2010
is a Master Trainer of NLP and Clinical Hypnotherapist who has a private Practice in Surrey and also Harley Street, London W1 and she regularly runs certificated Training Courses in NLP as well as designing and running in house training for Companies in the City, using a combination of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Thought Field Therapy (TFT) and Hypnosis in her Private Practice.
“I first became interested in NLP and Hypnosis in the 90’s whilst working in the Human Resource sector I attended a Practitioner Training Course. The techniques learnt on that course enabled me to transform my personal and professional life enabling me to set up my very successful private consultancy and produce internationally acclaimed self help CDs.”
(the “The Art of Sleeping Restfully”, “Healing with Hypnosis” and “Fertility”, are available at http://arthurpartridge.com/shop/)
“I have studied the work of Dr Richard Bandler (co-creator of NLP), Dr Milton H Erickson (Milton is accepted as one of the founders of modern hypnotherapy), Paul McKenna, John La Valle (President of the Society of NLP), Frank Farrelly (creator or Provocative Therapy) and Michael Neill.
Since 2000 I have either assisted on or ran the assisting team for Paul McKenna’s NLP courses in the UK, which has given me a unique opportunity to meet and work with Paul McKenna (incredibly talented author, therapist and hypnotist) and Dr Richard Bandler (one of today's genius’s).”